hey first of all, i think you should give it a try till you see that it just would work anymore. But now the tricky part is trying to get yourself prepared for the "break up part" its a "just in case" thing. Prepare yourself, just in case it doesnt work out & he wants to end or you do, then you wont be too hurt.

second of all, i say dont have sex UNLESS you really trust him, unless you feel safe, & loved. Not for nothing but the first time is something you will remember forever. take me for example, i lost it in the back of a truck, not romantic at all. I really do wish i waited for the person i am with now but hey its all about experiences. but you still have time. remember you just found out that he at frist liked you as a special friend, which is something i dont get. then again be careful with the he said/she said stuff, you never know what could be real and what could be fake. good luck.

Things to consider:

1) Is your friend tellign you the truth? She may have a crush on him...or be jealous. This VERY often happens when the friend has no bf. She may want to keep all of you to herself.

2) You asked him whether he truly likes you...so what kind of answer do you expect? "Oh yeah, you see, I don't like you but I haven't f*** anyone in the last 3 months so, you know, a pussy is a pussy, right?" This is what I technically call "a question with only one answer" becuase no matter what is the truth you always have to answer "yeah I truly like you".

3) So in one hand he is scared of girls, in the other he wants to use you? Don't you see the contradiction there? Either he is shy or he is not. Think about it.

4) For the 3rd base thing. If you want it, do it. IF he is not up for it, find someone who is.

Cute poems.
LOL.
I don't have an industrial,
But if I get another piercing in my cartilage somewhere,
I could have one.
My parents used to be like that,
But they changed their mind.
No facial piercings yet though. ):
<3

out of sight out of mind The one you love wouldn't be the one to forget when he's not around

Maybe its' because of the new guy you met at the camp that you have sort of forgotten about your beau back home!

Let us know how it works out when you return

Aweee that is sooo cute!!

Congrats!

I wish I was just as lucky...

<3

hey.. I posted a little entry about it!

baby, i`m so happy for you!
that's horrible that you can't see him until august or whenever.
we HAVE to chill before you//I leave.
its a MUST.
txt me or something, tomorrow perhaps?
ILY BABY!

lol  sounds lyk love to me. dang.. i wish my life was like that

but hey

o well

lol i hope u guys stay 2gether long=]=]

Thank you so much for the comment.

Maybe I shouldnt give up so easily.

um call him, email him, whatnot. and be like:

I'm kind of confused on our relationship, and I have feelings for "whoever", and I just wanted to let you know that I'm going to go on a date with them so that everything is clear, & i'm not sneaking around behind your back.

Not those words, but...something like that.

:)

xo

Thank you so much for your comment. But if I did write down my life story, I don't think anyone would believe it. I've done some crazy things. Oh and don't give your friend the pleasure of turning down your date. Explain to her that you really like this guy. The 'joke' he made to her doesn't seem like it was said with any sort of malice, and I'm sure your friend knows this. Lol we can all give others advice, but we can't take it ourselves can we? You're right, don't worry about it! Maybe she likes him too and is a little jealous?

Lalisha x

Thank you for your comment on my entry :))) I love it

In your case I think your friend is wrong. You can go out with whoever you want and if she was a real friend she'd understand. Go out with that guy and have lots and lots of fun.

wha..me included?
no. don`t replace meee.
i think its UBER cute.
BFF till the end.
you can ditch those lesbos. =P

bleeeh yeah friends can suck sometimes. it's your relationship, not theirs, for christ's sake.

anywho. falling for someone is always fun =)

I agree, if your friends wanted you to be happy, then they would support you! So, go for it...because you might regret it if you don't!

dont do it again, its good hes being honest like yo im smoking instead of showing it after youve fallen hard, but all thats going to do in the end is hurt you :/

sam;;

i wouldnt say its very good to date him unless u can convince him to stop the drugs...ehh thats a hard one.
<33

well if you didn't feel positive about the date then it wasn't a very good one.

[marilynsdevil]

Talk to him.

Ask him not to do it around you.

If the movie part was fun,

maybe you should watch movies at eachothers houses.

He wouldn't really get high at his or your house.

Would he?

Unless you convince him to stop doing drugs, I'd advise against that.

People are hard to change.

And if it bothers you that much, tell him, and give him the option of quitting or youre leaving.

=/

It sounds like you had fun with the movie part, mabey you should get to know him better then tell him you don't like him doing drugs and if he respects you and likes you then he would stop or atleast do it when hes not around you, if not then he is not worth it!

Tale care,

Ela xxx

GO GO GO GO GO!!!!

thats so cute. =]

this is hilarious. Girls commenting about how guys think.

I am a guy. Let me tell you how we are wired. Is pretty easy.

We like easy stuff, no challenges. We also like to hit in as many girls as possible.

The guy probably either had someone else or did not notice you like him. Maybe coincidentally he find otu you like him after you moved on, so he is now trying to hit on you.

Or he got bored with his current pussy and wanted a new one.

Take your pick.

[lenahan]

lol...weird just yesterday me and my friends where talkin bout dat XD

awww. this is so cute.
but haven`t you moved on?
and don`t worry about Steve.
Stephan`s just messed in the head.

love youuu.

2 tru!

*mwah*

PEACE OUT SISTA

~X~

Hey, Thank you.Every body keeps saying I am lying.I'm not.It all happened, I can hold emotions in on here for some reason.I'm good with overreaction.

Thank you.

Love yah

i'm sure your friends kee you alive,that's what my friends did when i broke up with the boy of my dreams...i hope you get over it soon

i'm sure your friends kee you alive,that's what my friends did when i broke up with the boy of my dreams...i hope you get over it soon

awww i feel so bad for u gettin the knock bak frm a guy is really hard, but remember that u at least tried, it wud have been way worse if u had have done nothing about it, it wud have eaten away at u and u wud have never have known how he felt.  I think that it was sweet of him to say that he sees u as a friend tho cuz loads of lads wud have just been cruel and nasty.  U shud try and move on from him but dont feel that u cant talk to him just because he turned u down.  U neva know wot mite happen in the future.  There are plenty of other lads out there and im sure that u will meet some1 new.  Mybe he said no because he did not want to ruin ur friendship and if that is the reason then he is worth staying friends with.  Dont feel sad for too long hope that helped comment if ya need more help xxx

Thank-you! I have put up another that I have written today = )

Friends are amzing I know what you mean they are my everything and I love them to bits and guys are pricks, ha ha yeah, the only decent guys are gay or taken in my experience!

Take care

Ela xxx

i love you.
with my heart x4.
that`s right babe.
times four.

xoxo

lmao. love it.
hate her.
love him.
hate her.
love YOU.
hate her.

and we're not going out.
just wanna set that straight.

love ya babe =]

Your friends don't just withstand your 'down' times--they usually don't even notice them because that's what they are--FRIENDS. Glad you have been blessed with some, not everyone has....have a great weekend

yeah my life has been a rollercoaster these past few months...life is sooo unpredictable! LOL

i love you darling.
forever and ever.